Thanks to the unfortunate success of Fifty Shades of Grey, the Internet has exploded with "keyboard doms" looking to show off online but unable to step up when it matters--and, much more unfortunately, men with cruel and abusive impulses who use D/s as a cover for what they have always wanted to do to other people. You are here because you require (and deserve) a supreme level of respect, safety, reliability, and communication which only an established professional can provide.
I am a professional in every sense. As a mid-40s conventionally-attractive man who operates and overseees a nationally-recognized company in my (very different!) primary field of practice with a significant public profile and regular media appearances, I will acknowledge up front that I am far more public-facing than anyone offering these services should be. I am exceptionally careful in selecting clients who immediately understand the need for privacy and discretion (usually because they are operating at a similar level), so while I am happy to meet via video or in person for an initial consultation so that we can get a sense of one another you will not learn my actual name or identity unless and until we proceed beyond the initial consultation stage to sign a mutual non-disclosure agreement.
I specialize in established professional women of all backgrounds, ages, partnership statuses, and levels of experience. I understand from years of working with them that it is nearly impossible for powerful women who have even more reasons to be concerned for their privacy and safety to find a conventionally-attractive dominant who is operating at their level and understands their unique needs. The unfortunate truth is that most "doms" reach their limits when faced with anything other than younger, less experienced women who present no personal challenge to them. I am actively seeking these challenges.
Although you will never learn anything more about them than what I am about to share in this sentence, my past clients have included a CEO, an established Hollywood actress, a CFO, a best-selling New York Times-listed novelist, a Broadway theater director, a Julliard-trained musician, an HBS-educated business consultant, a therapist, a human rights lawyer, and an elected official.
This professional approach carries over to my services as a dominant, which I take just as seriously as my day job. My communications, scheduling, and billing are all handled by a trusted personal assistant--who is of course also bound by an NDA--via encrypted messaging. I will by default (unless requested otherwise) appear to all of our scheduled appointments wearing a tailored suit and fully prepared to bring my considerable focus to meeting your individualized needs.
I do not and will never judge your desires, your needs, your kinks, your experiences, your questions, your relationship status, or anything else you are bringing into our time together. That said, I do not and will never work with Republicans, Trump voters/supporters, or state or federal law enforcement officers.
Beginners
I am a natural teacher and mentor, and enjoy bringing that kind of energy into our play. I have been nearly every kind of dom to every kind of sub there is in the past 18 years, and I can help you to find a place in the spectrum wherever it works for you right now. I am here to meet you where you are at, and to discuss any and all of your desires so long as they are well within the bounds of consent, safety, and respect.
I enjoy planning custom, completely bespoke adventures for my clients while continuing to train them in the way that only I know how. I am far more interested in the mental aspect of kink than the physical, and will constantly challenge you while continuing to listen and and adapt to your needs. Your safety, comfort, and consent mean everything to me and I would never violate the trust that you bring into a scene with me.
I am careful to ramp up slowly, especially with play partners who are either completely or mostly new to kink, and to be sure of your state of mind and your ability to consent. While you may be able to form these thoughts as you read this, if I have done my job properly you would not be able to for up to an hour even after the scene has finished. I have a complete and comprehensive aftercare routine which has never failed to pull my partners out of subspace and back in into our conscious reality.
Beyond the immediate pleasures of exploring your present needs, it is also very important to me that your training include (as necessary) practicing how to communicate your needs with new partners, dating (including effective use of apps), relationship maintenance and advice, identifying and pursuing healthy and appropriate partners, and how to navigate
Experienced Submissives
Are you already well past Kink 101? I am prepared to meet you at any level of experience or desire. If you feel that you are past the Kink 101 stage I am a natural teacher and mentor, and enjoy bringing that kind of energy into our play. I have been nearly every kind of dom to every kind of sub there is in the past 18 years, and I can help you to find a place in the spectrum wherever it works for you right now.
Partner Surrogacy
Are you feeling overwhelmed by dating apps? Never making it past a first or second date, even when you feel like you are connecting? Inexperienced or nervous about sex or bringing up your particular needs with new partners? I have carefully studied the art and practice of partner surrogacy, and even apart from (or in conjunction with) my dominant services I am available to those who are seeking safe and healthy experiences with someone who is able to provide ongoing training and feedback. These services have been especially helpful for women whose contact with men have been limited by culture or disability, or those who have recently separated or divorced from long-term monogamous partners who are just now trying to understand the realities of 21st-century dating and sexuality.
Couples
I am often approached by couples who either don't know where to start, want to help one or both partners feel more comfortable in their D/s roles, and/or desire a safe shared experience with a professional. It is my pleasure and privilege to help in any capacity I can, offering anything from video consultation sessions to bespoke in-person experiences which fully respect everyone's desires, autonomy, and safety.
The unique set of services and experiences which I am ready to offer you can require an enormous amount of time to discuss, plan, prepare, and carry out--and even more so if you are completely new to kink and still working through the basics of what does and doesn't work for you. To be clear, this is work that I love to do but comes for me at an opportunity cost of doing any number of other things which I might otherwise be doing.
As such, I require and expect appropriate tribute from you. Although I seem to have the market cornered as the only professional male dominant in New England, I am too much of a socialist by nature to take advantage of this monopoly and my rates are generally comparable to those of my counterparts of other genders.
I am open to working with clients outside of New England, either remotely or with the addition of appropriate travel expenses to my usual fee.
I operate with strict rules designed to protect our mutual privacy, scheduling, and health, all of which will be discussed in our initial consultation.